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Dancing Down the Aisle Again: 10 Guidelines for a Joyous Encore Wedding



Love is a journey, and for those stepping into the realm of a second marriage, it's a journey worth celebrating with as much zest as the first. Encore weddings offer a chance to weave a tapestry of experience and wisdom into a celebration that's uniquely yours. Whether you're the bride and groom or part of the cheering squad, here are 10 guidelines to ensure your encore wedding is a joyous and memorable affair.

1. Embrace Your Unique Story: Every love story is a novel in itself, and an encore wedding is the next thrilling chapter. Take a moment to relish the journey that brought you to this point. Incorporate elements from your past – cherished memories, symbols of enduring love – into your ceremony and decorations.

2. Craft Personalized Vows: Words have power, and personalized vows add a poignant touch to your encore wedding. Reflect on the lessons learned and the growth experienced since your first marriage. Share promises that resonate with this chapter of your life, expressing commitment and love in a way that feels authentic.

3. Opt for an Intimate Affair: Consider a smaller celebration with close friends and family. An intimate affair creates an atmosphere of warmth and joy, allowing for more meaningful connections and shared moments.

4. Blend Families with Care: For those bringing children from previous marriages, involve them in the planning process. Ensuring their comfort and support is essential for a harmonious blending of families. Consider incorporating special rituals or symbols that represent the unity of your new family.

5. Destination Delight: Make your encore wedding an adventure by choosing a destination with sentimental value or one that captures the essence of your relationship. A destination wedding adds an extra layer of excitement and creates lasting memories for everyone involved.


6. Symbolic Ceremonies: Elevate your ceremony with symbolic rituals representing the union of two lives. Lighting a unity candle, planting a tree together, or participating in a sand ceremony can add a beautiful touch, symbolizing the blending of past and present.

7. Celebrate Shared Interests: Infuse your wedding with elements that celebrate your shared interests and passions. Whether it's a favorite hobby, a mutual love of travel, or a joint appreciation for art, incorporating these aspects will make your wedding uniquely yours.

8. Mindful Budgeting: A joyous encore wedding doesn't require a Hollywood budget. Focus on allocating resources to elements that hold the most significance for you, whether it's a memorable venue, a talented photographer, or a special piece of jewelry.

9. Include Everyone: Your close friends and family members are a crucial part of this celebration. Involve them in the ceremony or other aspects of the wedding to make the day even more special. Their support and love are invaluable.

10. Gratitude and Reflection: Pause during the celebration to express gratitude for the love and support surrounding you on this journey. Reflect on the growth and resilience that brought you to this point, and toast to the joyous future that lies ahead.


An encore wedding is a celebration of love's resilience and the start of a new chapter. By embracing your unique story, personalizing vows, and focusing on meaningful details, you can create a joyous celebration that reflects the depth and beauty of your enduring love. Here's to love, laughter, and a joyous encore!


With love,

Tamesha Kinloch-Carter, CWEP


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